
Our weekend was bittersweet as we attended the funeral of my Grandma. She's the last of mine or Dans' grandparents which makes it especially hard to say goodbye.
My grandma was a generous, loving person. She was fiercely loyal and she didn't take crap off anyone. She was outspoken and said things as she saw them, but also had a soft, loving side.
Some of my best memories from childhood are of our snowmobiling adventures at my grandparents' cabin in the Uintahs. My grandpa and my dad would spend the day gasing up and fixing the snowmobiles while my sisters and cousins and I would drive and drive and drive. Looking back, I don't think the menfolk got a lot of peace because they spent a lot of time trying to find one of us after we got ourselves stuck in a snowbank. They'd pull us out and the adventure would continue. When the day was ending and they finally talked us into coming out of the cold, my grandma would have waiting for us her famous enchilladas or something else she'd made from scratch. Lisa and Shane and I (the eldest grandchildren) got to sleep in the bunkhouse which was another adventure. The best part was using the outhouse even though there was a bathroom with modern conveniences inside the cabin.
This weekend while I was helping my Dad and Nancy go through some things in my grandma's storage unit, I came across a bunch of pictures of the cabin. It was EXACTLY as I remember it: the design in the beadspread, the placement of the round kitchen table, the accordian-style closet door. These memories are from elementary school which shows how vividly I remember those times.
I've spent more time with my grandma and grown closer to her since my kids were born. After she stopped driving Dan would pick her up and bring her to our house for Sunday dinners. Sometimes I would take her to medical appointments or the two of us would take Gavin to McDonalds for lunch. She also loved to walk around Costco with me, sampling the food. She liked to be invited to the kids performances and birthday parties. I miss her but I know that she is happy now, reunited with my grandpa and my sister Joleen, both of whom she was unable to say goodbye to. I know she must be very happy there.
